what would you tell a woman who is contantly feeling less than?

Question:

i have a friend who is always putting herself down, she thinks she stupid, fat, and boring and that everyone who says that they care about her is just lying.everyone tells her what a nice lady she is and how smart and talented she is but she doesent believe it. she is really smart and beautiful how do you help someone see themselves as others do?

Answers:
First of all she may be saying it so that people keep telling her those things. It may be all an act. IF you think so, you must tell her it is getting tiresome and she'll be losing friends if she doesn't' watch out. No one wants to be around a depressing person all the time.

But, if she really is that down and is that way all the time, she probably should see a doctor and talk to someone. She may be depressed and need some medication.

She is lucky to have a friend like you who is sticking by her. Tell her you can't

I am so sorry to read that it is really you and you really feel this way. Please talk to someone. But seriously take control of your life. If you think you're boring....DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.......if you think you're fat.....EXERCISE AND EAT RIGHT........Involve yourself with your life, don't let the days just go by, get active. Take some classes, meet new people, get active in your church. The one person you answer to if YOU. Good Luck.

She probably is stupid, fat and boring. However, unlike many others, at least she is realistic.

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