Boyfriend has a diaper fetish?

Question:

This guy I'm seeing, Elijah Weisberg, has a diaper fetish. I care about him a lot. He has these weird fantasies about putting pudding in an adult diaper and feeling it squish all around in the diaper. He even says he wants to put me in one, which scares me. I am not interested. He has been bringing this up more and more as time progresses. Once he even had me sit and wait until he could get a stiffy after viewing some diaper fetish sites. I've never heard of anyone being interested in this. Is this normal? Should I deal with it or leave him? I care about him even though he has a ton of emotional issues. OMG he has a TON! I can't get him to seek therapy about this or his pot problem. Maybe he'll change?

Answers:
Wow...I'm sure the fact that you plastered his full name all over youqa.coms is going to help his emotional issues a ton. Look, there's only one way to go here. If it's generic pudding, drop him, but if it's Jell-o brand pudding, definitley keep him, theres always room for Jell-o, you know what I'm saying?

Other Answers:
don't expect others to change.. it may never happen.. I would PERSONALLY just leave

If you are serious, you have answered your own question. You don't want to deal with all of his issues, or wear diapers, so move on.

Dump him! (Pardon teh Pun)

Why would you put his name on blast on the internet if you really cared about him. Doesnt that seemed kinda wrong that you would do that?

I seriously hope you're "bombing" someone in this question. It's too surreal to be real.

I agree with the first answer...just leave him...

Let him hit the road, believe me people like that don't change they just get more deeper and deeper into it. Give him the boot while you still have your dignity.

this guy your dating is sick, make yourself a favour and dump him

He won't change unless he wants to, I don't care how much he says he loves you, or if there are kids involved. You can't change him either so don't try. He'll change when he's ready, so either deal with it or leave.

I'm not sure it's his mental issues you should be focused on.
Is this the same guy who dumped you and you couldn't keep from contacting him because you missed him so much? Was this the same guy you were with when you thought you were having a miscarriage? This is all very bizarre.
Whatever happened between the two of you, it's probably better just to make a clean break. You're obviously bitter because you outed him and his fetish by name, for Pete's sake!

"She was right. I should have run away. An idiot therapist convinced me OTHERWISE---saying he was emotionally available. Um, NO! I found out later he was a user, a sick user of women. I should have run away for sure. "

This was your response to the last "best answer" you chose to this question. Sounds to me like you are the sick one that you want to keep spreading this rumor about this person.

If it were true or if you really wanted an answer, you wouldn't stay with this person when you have already agreed that you shouldn't. Stop slinging the mud around and leave the person (alone).

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