i can't feel happy because i know me ,my family,my friends and all people i love will all die.?
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they are not dead yet so why not enjoy them while they are with you instead of wasting time worrying when you could be enjoying each others lives
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Just be happy that they all had the chance to live.
just dont let it bother u...it is something inevitable and all u need to do is enjoy life while u can...dont let anyone or anything stop u...=)
Stop being afraid of change. We all die. It is a transition to another state of existence, that's all.
Make the most of your time with your family and friends.
Stop wasting time dwelling on the negative and enjoy the positive while you still have a chance.
Well since you only have this one time with them why be miserable and sad all through it and waste the time instead of being happy and embracing every minute with them? Seems illogical to waste all of your precious time being miserable.
This is an understanding situation, but you have to be more optimistic about your views of life. Take each day as a blessing and face new challenges ahead. Life is hard, but at the same time it is very rewarding. Find things that you enjoy to do to keep your mind off of negative thoughts. Surround yourself with positive people and you will soon realize that the people in your life love you dearly. Hope this helps :)
Yes. We don't get out of this life alive. However, if you really knew what was awaiting you and the people you love after death you'd probably end it all right now so you could begin experiencing the complete, all-encompassing feeling of love being back with GOD offers us.
All I can suggest to you is to start looking for the positive things that are happening all around you. Every time you see something good, something that makes you smile, thank GOD for it. The more you look for good, the more you will find. Eventually the positive will overcome your fear of death and you will find yourself enjoying what is now.
Everyone dies. You will die, I will die, everyone on this site will die at some point. Its just a part of life.
This happens to me all the time, but after some very odd advents it stopped. It sound like your afraid of death, i use to be to until and Out Of Body Experience. You might want to see a therapist and enjoy the time you have with them.
I know you probaly will just click past this but if you would have Jesus in your life you will never die and never have to say goodbye to your loved ones. I do not fear death because I know that I will be rejoined with my loved ones in heaven someday. I am totally amazed that people who do not live their life knowing Jesus can get through a single day with out this fear you speak of. How do you not worry about every step of your life?" I will fear not for thou art with me" I have troubles yes but the Lord is with me every step and I know this and feel his presence and know where me and my family will be one day. Seek ye first the kingdom of God.
i dont know what ur beliefs are.but if u and others are good with god u dont have anything to woory about. there is a far better world waiting for us all.no more pain,sickness,sorry. what is there to be sad about? u will all be together again u will miss those that go ahead but look forward to the day that u are reunited with them if with god they are alot better off than we are.
That is the deadliest truth that everyone knows but tends to ignore. However, the best thing you can do is to concentrate what lies immediately in front of you. Maybe you will have to see your doctor soon on this issue.
Unfortunately that is up to God. I do know that worrying does not save that person's life but I do know that worrying will not get you anywhere or them. Life is to Special, why are you wasting time on something like that. You are missing out. They are here today so stop wasting time. What kind of memories do yo want, not to mention you are not living life to its fullest. Being reborn as a christian you know you will see them again. You are being selfish. I know you mean good but it's only going to rob you of the life God has planned for you>
I think the best way to overcome this is to believe in the presence of a second life in the heaven ur friends ,family and all people u love will be there but this life would be happier and immortal u would never be separated again
Please go onto the EFT website (Emotional Freedom Therapy)
Try the techniques, its free and it works! Good Luck
I'm so sorry that this is causing you so much distress. I hope you take a moment to realize that death is not a bad thing, it is just another natural process. There must be death in order for there to be new life. The death of those before us, nuture the growth of new life. Both in a physical sense, and mental. Bodies decompose, which puts nutriants into the soil that is the foundation of growth. Our ancestors teach us, and then they pass on so that we may forge our own way. Without death, there would be no progress, no change.
You will miss people that die before you, because they have an impact on your life, and it does hurt, there is no doubt about that. How to combat those negative feelings is to enjoy them, and learn from them, as much as possible while they are still with you. Love them, and then honor them, take the lessons they teach you and go forward and do great things.
First you have to stop worrying. We all have no choice but to get old and die, it's scary, very scary but we have no choice by the laws of nature. All you can do now is live life to the fullest, enjoy your friends, family and people around you, don't take them for granted or anything for that matter, enjoy your life, do something you've always wanted to do. Death is very sad, but don't deprive yourself of a wonderful life or the joy your friends, family and people around you because of your fear.
Just appreciate the people you love while you can and remember you'll see them in Heaven.
You could try reading a book called(embraced by the light) it was a very good book and not too long.I read it after my sister died.I helped alot.
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