Do you know about dreams ?

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My question is I have alot of dreams ,and the most part is they are always about my husband having a affair ,and this happens at least 3 times a week ,its upsetting even tho Iknow it is a dream .Im like ok what is going on in my head ??also my grandmother that passed 5 years ago always at her house packing her things ,these dreams are the ones that keep coming back .do you have any clue as to why .?my husband did cheat on me 3 years ago but I feel like im over it now .what yah think??

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I studied dreams as part of a course I took in school. They are interesting and in depth. They do mean things. As for your husband, cheating, you said he had an affair 3 years ago. The truth is you have not forgiven him and you are reliving the pain in your dreams because you can't discuss it with him. It's part of the past to him but not to you. You have not had closure to it. I suffered the same fate, and suffered dreams. It's hard. You are only hurting yourself. This is what you need to do. Clear your head, go for a walk, whatever it takes but be alone. Think clearly. Do you think he is cheating now? IN YOUR HEART? IF not, you need to let go...this is how...if you choose to forgive....you must forgive....it's hard we want details...let it go...I can tell you personally what I do to let it go...but you need to let it go....stop,,if you think he's cheating confront him. You know. You know you have been there. Don't kid yourself. Don't lie to yourself. The dreams will stop.
As for your grandmother...another instance of you not letting go...
your grandmother is packing to tell you she is leaving...you are not letting her go.....let her go...tell her it's okay....your glad she is at peace....she can't leave you until you except it. You have not excepted it, not really. When my mother passed, I dreamed she was standing in line to the cemetary, weird, but I too would not let her go...finally I needed to except it, and the dreams stop and good dreams came.
Honey, as for your husband and his cheating, you never get over it. you just learn to except the things you cannot change. We still love them and in time we learn to trust them not quite the same but we do trust them again, We hope the hell we put them through they never want to cheat again. Right?

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