is yelling all the time for little things a mental disorder?
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First of all, it isn't your fault at all. Obviously your mother has some issues. It sounds to me like she is stressed out and doesn't know how to deal with it. She may not even realize she's doing it. She just needs to step back and think about what's got her so upset and why. Sometimes every little thing can upset a person and cause them to yell. Your mom yells because she's upset with something in her life besides you. She probably doesn't have a mental disorder, just stress. Just try to be understanding with her and realize it's her problem - not yours. Hang in there.
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Well maybe your mom has a hormonal problem , Maybe she is going thru the change. Why dont you ask her why she is so loud.
Its high anxiety - take your mum to the doc & get her some anti-depressants for anxiety. She will be cooler than a refrigerated mung bean in no time. She needs to pray for patience. She could also have a chemical imbalance that makes her moody. I felt that way for a long time. I was just irritable for no reason. I needed to get on some meds to help even things out. And now I feel better. Still working on the patience, but I'm not such a hot head. It's not you. So don't even think about it being your fault. Don't take it personally. I know it's hard, butt just let it go. You'll feel better too.
Maybe your mother feels like she has to hollar for anyone to listen, or maybe she id just use to yelling and needs to learn how to get her point across without the yelling.
Constant yelling ,and anger may be the source of something that happened in her past, and has not learned how to deal with it.. its a form of taking her problems out on others, as she does not know how to deal with it. it may stem from her parents. You cannot feel to blame, but if you can, try to talk to her, sometimes this does not work, b/c you cannot reason with people who need help in dealing with their anger. Is there a church , or someone spirtual you can talk to about this, as she does need help, or it will affect your life . maybe if she knows how much it upsets you, she will get help. just the fact that you told her you would not watch tv, is almost a theraputic way of trying to get her to stop behavior for awhile, but will not last. she should seek anger management help. take care, hope it works out, if not be strong..get yourself some kind of nuturing self help!!
no prabaly not. its just a way of dealing with stress thats all. just venting. its not your fault. ask if theres anything wrong.
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