how can i correct myself.. from inferiority complex?
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ask urself: why do i feel inferior? did someone from my past or some kind of event made me react so and let me to come to the conclusion that i wasn't worthy?
You define your life, no one else. If someone or something kind of made you think that you were inferior, it does not mean that you are; that sounds right, right? Because that's the truth, you just have to believe, and you can believe that by challenging your current thoughts, what you tell yourself during the day, by pushing pause and looking at the facts instead of your personal beliefs, which usually are not true. You only think you are inferior because a tape has been playing in ur head for so long; u've been telling urself that u r inferior, which has led to a clouded perception b/c you think that that lie is the truth, but it's not. Since u have a habit of thinking negative thoughts, you can get into the habit of positive, factual thinking. A habit usually takes about 21-30 days to incorporate (according to what i've read). Yeah. And I guess that's all really. It probably sounds hard for you right now, but if u believe and get into that habit, u can change. It's really up to you. You can look inside for the answer; when you do, don't think about what other people think of u, instead, think about what U think of u. "Do I really think I am inferior, regardless of what others think"? You can look at it this way, that u are not ur mind (that's what i tell myself), b/c the mind has its way of doing things with electrical impulses and messages and all that stuff, so if you just change your negative-thinking habits, you can change your views and perceptions and you will start to pull urself out of the hole u fell into it urself. Hoped this has helped. Peace bro
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do something empowering. Do something that you normally wouldn't do, something that sets you above the rest. It'll be hard, but it's the first step towards recovery.
Brag about something you've done, something accomplishing, to someone you feel inferior to. It'll feel good.
But most of all, the first thing I said, do something that makes you feel very accomplished.
Wipe out all the negative things about yourself that people have told you. If you have been put down by somebody, it was to make them feel better about themselves. Don't let them win at your expense.
Tell yourself that you are worthy of everything you have & want in life. Remember, no one can make you feel inferior unless you believe it.so don't listen! Best of luck getting over that (but I can relate).
do something that makes YOU feel proud.
Who the heck cares what other people think?
F them if they cant understand that
I would like to add on to the previous answers. Definitely your aim should be to wipe out all the emotional charge about being inferior, which you have picked up from past experiences. There is a wonderful new self-help method called EFT which can help you achieve your goal, if you are serious about it. You can learn it for free by downloading the manual at the site www.emofree.com. There is a special topic dedicated to self-image. Read that too. Cheers and best of luck!
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