a word of inspiration please.?

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i dont know what to do, my job sucks - i seem to be doing nothing right in my boss's eyes, my boyfriend of 3 years almost smacked me last night - he NEVER did that b4, my sister helped alot by telling my mum, she called me and wants me to leave him, im 21 years old, living 600 km's from home, i have no car to just get away and chill. and my sinus is at the worst stage it can be at. i need a word of inspiration, there's nothing at this point accept a mother who cares dearly for me that i can look at and say, at least there's something good in my life. pls help me. thanks

Answers:
You sound like a younger Me of the opposite sex.

I have suffered with chronic sinus infections most of my life, I was the victim of an abusive wife (happens more often than people think) And I recently moved over 800 miles from my family and friends.

Your 20's are some of the most confusing and difficult years in a young adult's life. Take it from someone in the end of his. This is where you leave behind many of the childish things you enjoyed in your teen years and move foreword into adulthood. It is only natural to feel intimidated by these life changes when they happen. It can feel like the world is spinning around you.

This will effect jobs, relationships, and friendships if you let it. The trick is to try and retain yourself as much as possible and don't try to go through it too quickly. It's OK to still like cartoons, and pancakes shaped like letters or mickey mouse. That is part of what makes you, you. Don't let yourself loose your youthfulness during this time as that is the one thing that will keep you young at heart.

If there was a life lesson I could pass on this is it. I hope my extra 8 years will help you cope with this crazy time in your life.

As for your man nearly slapping you. You need to forgive him one time, and one time only. If it happens again it is the beginning of a pattern, one which ALWAYS increases in intensity and danger. Hopefully it was a momentary lapse in brain function and it will never happen again. If it does, don't play the helpless victim, Kick his *** by any means possible and call the cops. Make sure to get pictures of any marks. (this is only worse case scenario).

If he was able to stop himself it means he at least was taught well and is in control.

Good luck.

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God loves you (John 3:16)

it's not only you I am also in the same boat. But hey !! live for today and this moment Trouble does not last forever.

You can control all of these things that bother you.

YOU can leave your abusive cowardly boyfriend - real tough guy.

YOU can look for another job and work for someone that appreciates you.

YOU can get meds to control your sinus.

YOU can rent a car and get outta town.

Life seems tough sometimes, but I can think of many people in a hospice who would trade places with you anytime.

Well, the first thing I would do is stay with your mom if you can. If you know she's supportive, then she'll understand. Talk things through with your boyfriend. Sometimes that helps. I'm 23 and don't have a car, but I walk everywhere. To zone out, listen to music that reflects your mood. It works for me everytime. You'll get through things ok. Just have hope and patience. Hope this helps ^_^

~El-Matto

leave do what your mom says go home you don't need that sh*t. Its the economy. Despite the lies that are told in the media, the economy really sucks. The only jobs out there are minimum wage jobs. If you have a good job, then your boss knows that he can mistreat you and there is nothing you can do about it.

Unless there were extenuating circumstances with your bf, your mother is right. You don't need to live with someone who beats you. There are tons of great guys out there that would never lay a hand on a woman in anger.

Go outside, close your eyes and feel the wind in your face. That is God's breath. Ask Him to please be with you and guide you in His love. He created you for a purpose. To worship Him and to love others. Take a good long walk and get away from everyone and just seek Him. Love, catmom same thing happened in my life..but i don't have gf,so y don't you talk to me..lets shares the sorrow together..

First of all let me tell u that u are not alone. Look at me i am too of 21 and passed my initial 18 years almost 500km away from my family and sometimes having no contact for years. And my friends :) ... may be ur boyfriend is so good who has passed 3 years with u lucky u are..
Let me tell u one thing and it is trust me u r so good and deserve Love because u are away from family still u care about them u love them most people don't do like this but u are doing so it means u are good and about job don't worry there is no any path in the world full of difficulties every time there will be a good time trust me. See after every neight there is a Day ..Be happy and try to forget what had happened and accept what is going on it will bring good results in future.

Teach us to delight in simple things,
And mirth that has no bitter springs: Forgiveness free of evil done,
And love to all men 'neath the sun.

By: Rudyard Kipling

be true to your self and life will be true to you Love your self and others will love you for who you are.

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