Why am I attracted to evil men?


Question:
What is it about the cold, calculating, deadly look in their eyes? Why am I more attracted to someone I know could and would kill me than the nice, nice guys? Am I doomed to eventually fall into an abusive relationship? Why are the bad guys so much more appealing? What the heck is wrong with me?

Answers:
Perhaps it is an ancient, ingrained survival trait. Women attach to the men who would most likely benefit themselves by being utterly selfish towards others without regard for our more modern ideas of 'fair play'. The woman hopes that such a man would share some of his success with her. She is willing to endure a certain amount of abuse in order to ensure she is fed.

The male offers her a meal of red meat to bind her to him. It is to say, "I can get the best for you if you submit to me." Test yourselves, ladies, what message is the man giving you when he cooks up a meal including red meat and invites you over?

I hate to say it but... it's like in a pack of wolves, the meanest and nastiest may become head wolf and various females will lay on their backs, offering themselves, in hopes of gaining some favor.

These basic survival traits are difficult to overcome even in our social structure that, ideally, allows even the nice guys to prevail. (but does it?)
badboy syndrome...all women suffer from it.


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