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I am in early 20's ...I already feel that some of the nostalgic things that elicited my mood while I was a kid are no longer exciting me . An example is going to my native place swimming in the pond , playing cricket with mah old buddies ... My priority has shifted to my career and nothing else excites me really . Like I just wanna prove myself in a career , Other things like going to a party or a picnic or meet some friends , talk with friends on phone dont excite me... i . I just wanna make money soon and then be happy then make good network of friends...
Did you feel the same ? Can anyone temme if you feel the same when you were 22 ? I am nervous how I will make money but I hope I will do it oneday :)
I am lazy bum
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Well, I hope you aren't a lazy bum or you will never make $$$! You have to be a go-getter and never be afraid to learn anyone else's job and step up to the plate to go the extra mile.

I have been on my own since I was 17. I had no ability back then to go to school like my friends. I worked one full-time job and two part-time jobs on evenings and weekends. I have never stopped working.

I was too darned tired to enjoy anything that I used to enjoy. I have been working hard ever since. If I had the opportunity and a good family behind me - I always have known things would have been so much easier if I could have gotten an education.

My advice to you is that if you have an opportunity to get an education - GRAB IT FAST! Your life will be SO much easier and so much more pleasant!

If you are lazy - get motivated to be the best you can be in whatever you set your hand to. Study and make sure you do the best job you can.

If you are not enjoying life, examine whether or not you are having some kind of depression because now you are entering an adult life and you are experiencing changes.

Money is NOT everything. Believe me. I wish I could have had the opportunities some of the kids today have and I see them wasting it. I am happy but I have to work twice as hard with still one full-time job and a part time job. I can pay the bills, put food on my table, do things for my kids that I never could do as a child. I am not in debt - not one red cent. I own my own home. I don't buy what I can't afford and I watch my credit cards carefully and don't get carried away.

The only thing I can say is that you are at the age to shape your future. Take charge of it now.

If you can write to me...scully_22ps@yahoo.ca I can give you some private advice.

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