OK, I admit it: I'm bored. Bored with life. Bored of being alone and bored of being broke.?


Question:
I'm a loner, but I've always been able to keep myself occupied/distracted, with music, books, films, and recently, keeping fit. These days I'm feeling restless in the evening, less interested in doing anything. Sleep is some relief, but I do tend to have vivid dreams every night, which aren't always welcome.
I've got a shitty part-time job, no money, no love life... I've been on Prozac for a year. I've tried several positive-thinking self-help books, but nothing sems to stick.
My question is: have you been here, and turned your life around? What worked for you?
No religious or insulting answers please.

Answers:
I think the thing that is getting you down is just your lack of direction. I looked at your past questions and saw you are having a hard time finding a job that uses your knowledge. Sometimes in order to find what you are looking for, you have to look everywhere. Consider the possiblity of moving, even far away, to find your job. If you aren't dating and have no or few meaningful deep friendships, maybe relocating will offer multiple solutions. In the mean time, try increasing your hours at work or taking on another part-timer to make some extra money and save it for a move when you find your job. Also, have you talked to your doctor about this? Adjusting the dosage of your Prozac may offer some temporary relief. I hope things start working out for you. Good luck.
If you're a woman have your thyroid checked ASAP! Many women are treated for depression when it is really their thyroid!
Men can have thyroid problems too so I guess get it checked either way. It is a simple blood test.

And get out there and find another job. Get a full time job not only will you have more money, more of your time will be occupied.

And there is nothing wrong with being a loner. I'm one too! Though I ended up happily married and with kids and I wouldn't change anything, I could easily see myself in a cottage on the coast of Maine with no one but my cat and books and the sea to keep me company and I would be in Heaven!
Why do you have no money? Save up a bit. Work out, an ask a girl/guy out that you like. Try to be outgoing.


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