Why do some people prefer to be around people that treat them bad and make their life hell?
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It is possible that all you have ever been around is people who treat you badly, and you don't know anything different, so in a way you may be comfortable around them, not really realizing it.
You must believe that you are a worthy enough person to have better people in your life than the ones who are making it miserable for you.
God chose to put you here for a reason. And, I know it was not to be mistreated by your loved ones and friends.
Find that strength inside that tells you that you are a good person, worthy of being loved by another, and knowing that when you are being treated in a bad way, this person is showing you absolutely no respect. When you let people trample on you, you are also not being respectful to yourself. It is like seeing your sister getting hit by her boyfriend and you standing there doing nothing. This may be how you treat yourself, because you don't know any differently.
Sometimes, we just need time to be by ourselves, and figure out who we are and where we want to go from here. Would a little distance from these people be a good idea? Think about it, cuz in the end, they are not the ones getting hurt, you are hon...
When I was younger, my boyfriend had a dog who died. She was a pekingese. I had a best friend, and she had a best friend besides me. We three hung out together. But, this friend was so mean to me. She told me when Brandi died that she was an ugly dog anyway and I could get another one. She had no sense of compassion, and I did nothing. Tragically, she died when she was 31 years old. I miss her, yes, but I wish I could have stood up to her and told her that her behavior was very uncalled for and extremely disrespectful. Not having said anything to her before she died has altered the friendship I have today with my best friend.
If you feel the need to speak up, do it now. And walk away from the people who keep hurting you.
Because they feel that they dont deserve better, or like the punishment. I think you should leave him.
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