How do these outgoing people do it?

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I'm very shy and I have a hard time comprehending just what goes thru the mind of these people that seem fearless and they speak their mind and they get into trouble but it doesnt seem to bother them. They get criticized and it rolls off of them usually. They might slap a"religious" label on themselves, but they don't live like a prudish priest or nun, they go out and drink and have sex and have all kinds of fun and really live life to the fullest. I find that religious criticism bothers me the most, like when other people point out my so called "sins". I just fear that if I don't pretend to be guilty for these "sins", then I'll be ostracized and thought of as being satanic. If no one ever committed these "sins", then the world would be boring. It's these daring, outgoing people that make life interesting by the way they live, rather than being held down by a goody goody moral code. How do they face the criticism and still go on living a fun life?

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Hello Conundrum! Just talkin' 2 myself, or is it a doppelganger?

You said it right...'nuff said...

Don't worry, b happy!

I always wonder what happened to their God given conscience and I see their actual behavior as the end of a process of desensitization, for example the first few sins they committed really bothered them, but they kept quieting the still small voice inside of them (the conscience) and they make themselves feel better by telling themselves "everybody is doing it."
Deep down, though, they are miserable, they wish they had a good reputation, but they lie to themselves saying "I do not care what people think of me" --Sure they care, however, they do not show it. The reason people are not fulfilled living the life "to the fullest" as you put it is because God made us for more than temporary pleasure. In Christ, people can really live life to the fullest because their lifestyle provides for them a healthy, happy life that lasts - a very long time.
Every human being was created with a GOD sized whole in their soul and nothing in this world can fill the void, not alcohol, not drugs, not promiscuity, you name it - it will never be enough because the joy it brings is temporary and it is not worth the consequences.

because they just don't take it that serioulsy. Some people have it and some don't. Unfortunately I'm not one of them

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