Severe anxiety in the car?
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sometimes all you need it time and hopefully you will become more comfortable
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Maby, im no doctor, but that sounds like fear like if you were attacked by a dog you would have a strong fear of dogs. The best way to over come this fear is to ride with other people more often. Soon you will realize that everythins ok and it was only an wrong place wrong time kinda thing. ;)
Patience and maybe a little counseling might help. I have anxiety about many things and the only way I can deal with them is by facing them.
Hey, I've been rearended and had a drunk driver, driving at .21bac, pull out in front of me totalling my car, and lost control in the snow. I don't have any anxiety from all that. I say just drive around your neighborhood to start off with, a little at a time, everyday until you are ready to go a little further. Do this until you are comfortable again.
For anxiety you go to your doc or to counseling - that's the only things that will help you get over your fear - sorry about the accident
Face your fears, I know that is will be hard, but it is something you have to so, I know how you feel I was hit by an 18 wheeler. I was terrified, but I knew I had too. Fear is very powerful, but you have to be stronger...
Read this: Do It Afraid By: Joyce Meyers
This book really helped me.. God bless you
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Try cutting yourself, it gets the mind off what is going on around you.
It is called Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and is very real. I suggest you get some professional counseling, there is no shame in that.
Have someone drive you back to the spot where the drunk driver hit you. While painful, when you eventually do stop at a red light there again, you'll begin to get less and less nervous and panicky about it. You have to confront it head on. By going through the situation numerous times again, you will realize that you will be fine when you stop at a red light there. The drunk driver hitting you was just a freak accident. Good luck.
I have panic attacks often and it is truly terrible.But some medicines help and therapy.
Hmmm.. I get nervous and anxious too and I've never been hit!
I don't really know what to tell you except to seek help. I'd go with therapy first.
I love to drive. about 3 years ago, I was in an accident, and became very nervous about driving. I even got nervous playing driving games on a game system. It went away after some time. Yours probably will too. A counsellor might help you deal with the anxiety, if it is that severe. Hope this helps.
First thing to watch for is your breathing.
When you're in an anxious situation, take long, slow breaths.
Practice this in situations where you are calm.
Next, you simply need to learn to let go of the fear.
You've become aware that life can be dangerous. That knowledge can make you cautious. While that is not necessarily a bad thing, being overly concerned about things that are out of your control, is.
Perhaps learning meditation techniques can help also.
Good luck.
YES I HAVE ANXIETY TOO...BUT TAKE IT ONE DAY AT A TIME AND JUST TRY NOT TO DWELL ON IT.......IF YOU GO ON SOMEONE ELSE VEHICLE TELL THEM THAT YOU ARE SUFFERING FROM ANXIETY AND IF POSSIBLE THEY CAN SLOW DOWN OR TAKE IT EASY.......
HAVE A GOOD SLEEP...EAT PROPER FOOD, EXERCISE RELAXATION.
TRY TO DISTRACT YOURSELF WHILE INSIDE THE VEHICLE.....MAYBE PUT ON HEADPHONES AND LISTEN TO MUSIC.
DON'T DRINK TOO MUCH CAFFEINE IT WILL MAKE YOU MORE NERVOUS. AVOID FOOD THAT WILL STIMULATE YOU TOO MUCH.
TRY TO FIND THINGS THAT MAKE YOU HAPPY...SCRAP BOOKING ...GARDENING ..UNTIL YOU FEEL STRONG AGAIN.
LEARN TO ACCEPT THAT YOU HAVE FEARS SOME DAYS YOU ARE FINE THEN ENJOY THAT MOMENT.
yes. Since it is over a year ago and you are still struggling, I'm guessing you have a mild post-traumatic stress. One of the best ways to get over such a paralyzing fear is to have someone supportive help you relearn that what hapened will not happen every time you ride in a car. I'd guess that you never fully talked about or never felt completely listened to and supported when you went through this terrifying time. A counselor/ clergy person, etc.-- who is experienced in helping those who suffered trauma and who can provide an objective point of view-- might provide the support you seem to need.
It may take some invested time and or money, but the fear may become a viscous cycle if left unchecked.
hey girl i know exactly what you mean, same thing happened to me someone hit me from behind and i was stopped, with such speed that i ended up on the other side of the street and hit a car infront so i ended up Sandwiched! it was real bad my friend lost her baby there. and i get very very freaked out when ever im in the passanger seat of anyone's car even when i drive. but you know i guess time is what really helps, i actually tell the driver i had a bad experience and they tend to drive very carefully knowing i get Paranoid. but dont worry it will get better even if it seems like a nightmare chasing you. good luck!
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