help i just spend all day inside searchin the internet for porn savin porn pics?


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i dont have no confidence and all i think about is girls and how i dont have a girlfriend, iam needy i realise and possessive, i do have mental health problems like high anxiety, low moods, low self worth that im waitin to get help for, im 29 and ive had these probs for 15 years, people have messed me up alot and ive had alot of trauma, but im determined to get through it....however just latly im always thinking about sex and girls and its makin me feel really desperate....p;lus if i have no self worth or struggle with it how my gonna get a girl or have fun with them and enjoy their company? my moods really dip most times and i find i need alot of reasssurance off people, has anyone experienced this?

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Believe it or not, there are SO many men that have the same problem as you... That is why there are so many men hooked on pornography. You are just one of the few that can admit what the problem is. People look at pornography because there is no rejection, when you see that woman on the screen, you can do whatever you want in your imagination, and she isn't there to reject you... however, porn is like a black hole, it will suck you in and leave you alone and helpless (like you are now).

I don't want to push anything on you, but there is a God out there who loves you and has a purpose and a plan for your life. He loves you so much and can do so much more for you and fulfill you more than any porn could do... I was at a place once in my life where I was alone and depressed and feeling like no one loved me... and then I asked God in to my life and He has totally turned my life around... I am getting married next year to the most wonderful man in the world and I am free from everything that was holding me back before... And I have joy beyond belief! There is a void in your heart right now and only God can fill it... so many people try to fill it with porn, money, drugs, sex, etc... But nothing can fill you or satisfy you like God can...
You are depressed. See a Dr and he will prescribe meds that will help you. Watching porn and feeling sorry for yourself will not help. Also get out and mingle with others. Join clubs and volunteer to help those less fortunate than you.


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