How do I stop obsessing over a past situation with my boyfriend?

Question: It's become quite obsessive compulsive. I know within my hear of hearts that this man loves me. When I first met him I was going through a painful miscarriage and he was have familial problems causing him to withdraw from. One of his freinds and her best friend tell me that he has been with this friends friend for three weeks. I ask all sorts of questions at this point and they can't answer any of them. They seem to be trying to hard to get me to leave him. I don't know either of these people but I do know him. I gave him the benefit of doubt and trusted that he did not sleep with this women. I beleive deep inside that he didn't but I often find myself obsessing over the situation. It has been a few months I just want to stop this before it ruins my relationship. How do I get rid of my obsession with droning on and on about somthing that has passed? I'm a little worried that this might be obsessive compulsive?

Answers:
Its best sometimes to let the past stay in the past sometimes you may feel like you will never have closure but you will one day everything happens for a reason for tha good or bad.It's just what you make of the situation. but you also have to realize every guy is not going to be the same as your ex'es. Speakin from experience if you dwell in the past you will never be able to move forward in life and you push the one you love away. So move forward tomorrows always a new day to get a new attitude Also do'nt believe what anyone else has to say unless you see it with your on eyes. If you have Faith Pray to god and let him handle your situations it will all work out for the better

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cmon don't waste your time with these and get anxious...just live your life and your new experieces with your man..past is past!:D

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