what are some ways to boost self esteem..?
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"To establish true self-esteem we must concentrate on our successes and forget about the failures and the negatives in our lives." - Denis Waitley. I think this statement says it all. You are putting all your attention on negatives and it is not doing you any good at all. All these thoughts you have about yourself are creating your world for you. When you start to think that you can't get guys to approach you they won't.
So, what you need to do is change the thoughts you have about yourself and others. Try this little experiment. Every time you catch yourself thinking negative things about yourself or other people quickly think of something positive about yourself (or other people) and try to hold this new thought for as long as you can. It will be quite difficult at first but eventually you'll get the hang of it. Over time you will find yourself thinking less negatively and I guarantee your life will change as a result. You see, your new mindset will move you into unchartered waters and one day you will love all those things you hated about yourself because your physical world would have changed. And, that of course will include your body.
All the best.
Okay.......first you need to drop all that negative talk about yourself. Then you need to learn to lve yourself. this is very important. how can you love someone else if you don't think of yourself as anything good? this may sound stupid, but write notes to yourself, and leave them around in places that you will see them. write things like " i am beautiful" or " i like ____ about myself"
constantly reminding yourself will train you to blelieve all these things that are actually true about you!
after you have accoplished this, you will be more self confident. when you are self confident, it shows in your actions and your presence. people are attracted to that. and what about them? why do you need them to approach you.? maybe they feel negative about themselves. we humans all have alot in common even though by appearance you might not think so. good luck!
guys like confidence, have confidence and you can have anyone!!!
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