he promised me that he would stop smoking it and today i found a spoon with the drug what do i do?

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he told me that he would stop smoking it and today i found a spoon under the sink, somthing told me to just look and i did and there it was, now i feel like crap cuz he promised me that he would stop and he has'nt what can i do for him besides leave him that is the last thing i want to do i love this man with all my heart and soul. im very much stuck between leaving him and loving him and being there for him. HELP PLEEEEEAAAASSSSEEEE!!!!!!!!!!

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As a woman who "helped" her addicted son for over 30 years, I can't tell you loud enough to leave now before you're broke and dragged down with him. He needs help, but not the kind you can give him.

He's addicted. He may want to, but can't stop. And he may never change. You may love him, but that is not going to help.

If he doesn't enter drug treatment, you can kiss any hope of his being clean goodbye. And even if he does, the risk of a relapse is fairly high.

You have to decide if this is what you want for your life. Staying with him will NOT help him. And it won't help you.

Depends on how long this has been going on. I'd leave him personally. No one is smoking anything in my home. But if there are years and years invested, tell him to get into a drug counseling program or you're gone.

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