how do you deal with a friends suicide?


Question:
I'm taking this really really REALLY bad. I've known her since we were 2 years old, she was always the one constant in my life. I don't think i've felt anything like i'm feeling now. I can't eat, I can't breathe. I knew she was struggling, but I never thought it would come to this.
I also have questions on the religious aspect. I hope God would have enough love to realize when someone is hurting that bad, or in not full control of their mind, that he would be forgiving of them. He is a forgiving God, right? Thats why he sent Jesus, isn't it?

Answers:
I am so sorry to hear about your friend. I know it's hard but try to understand as best you can, what she was going through. Sometimes things are just to much for people to deal with and they cant take it anymore. ( i've felt like this more than once in my life).
I know its hard but you have to try and understand that people have different ways of dealing with things, and some people are better at dealing with emotional issues than others.
As for god, I belive that he is forgiving otherwise not many people would get into heaven. So I'm pretty sure that your friend is up there chillin with him, and she not feeling so sad anymore. So in light of that just realize that she isn't feeling so sad anymore.
d a wonderful freind age 48, he had 3 wonderful sons and due to a relationship breakup he hung himself . i miss him loads.


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