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This problem may be more common than you think. Before your holiday, try using the toilet at a family member or friends home. Nothing may happen at first, but keep trying, telling yourself that you will be successful. Here is a good website to visit that may be of help with your situation. http://www.restrooms.org/page02r.html
Give yourself positive affirmations several times per day, e.g. I will use the toilet away from home.
You can do it. Enjoy your holiday!
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no its not mad loads of people don't want to use toilets other than the ones in their home, epically not some of the public ones yuck, this issue of going away with your boyfriend means that you are going to be pushed into dealing with this, you should find a sympathetic counsellor or similar to help you over this hurdle good luck
Yeah, I hate that. I have a solution for you. Always carry a book of matches to the bathroom with you. Keep them in your bra if you are going out and might need to go. It masks the after effects if you get my drift.They might want to know what was burning but wouldn't that be better? It happens to many of us and its not somthing to be ashamed off. If u cant do it u cant do it- i think u shud accept it as it is and not try to change like this. Tell it to ur boyfreind and be comfortable
omg. my friend's sister was the same way, even after she got married, she had to go to her parent's house.you are not alone, I know how it feels to "go" with your man around but you should start feeling comfortable for that..good luck
why can't you go?? pls. elaborate your situation..
Is it because you're afraid of the toilet or you can't let it out??
always try to be brave after you decide to do . i think its time that you told your boyfriend, aren't relationships about truth, sex, friendship and honesty? you should be able to tell your partner anything with full support from him. you must get your self away it will help you relax, maybe you could tell him on holiday. Before going though call in and see your doctor he could give you good advice.
Lucky you. There`s no need to use public toilets. Local holidays will ensure u dont go far. Employers detest workers who hang-about the toilets and would gladly accept you.
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I would say start by going over to your boyfriend's or to a close friend or family member's house (someone you feel really relaxed with), and drinking as much water as you can. Then, don't leave the house. When you can't hold on any longer, go to their bathroom, and see what happens. When you're happy using the bathroom at your friends' houses, then try a public restroom. You can get through this. Counselling will help.
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