tired of human beings?

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i was 22 when i took up my first job,i was harrassed by my employers for 13 long months,couldn't find another job so had to stick with the same job despite the fact that the site was 100km away and i had severe backache,my empoyers were cruel,they used to verbally abuse me becuase i was still a trainee,had to quit as i couldn't withstand the torture,took up another job,there again i was harrassed by somebody as i refused to enter into illicit relationship....had to quit as my life was made difficult.,now again i am studying...my colleagues are being uncivil,they are unethical...they cheat in all the tests and exams...they dislike me because i refused to help them during tests and exams....there was a lot of pressure on me to enter into illicit relitionships with boys.i refused,now they hate me,they make it a point to hurt me by making causatic remarks and by laughing at me when i feel bad.i am tired,life seems worthless,i want to stop but can't because i am young,feel very low and numb

Answers:
Hi Geek,

DO not despair now, because things don't necessarly get better!

First of all, harrasment is part of all lines of work. Whatever the employers or agencies claim, there is ALWAYS a level of mental abuse and harrasment in EVERY single line of work out there.

People are stupid and selfish all over the planet. Although they will publicly show an image of being nice and goody-2-shoes and the like, people in the work (and school) environment are hypocrites who will stop at nothing to take you down, thinking it will elevate their own selfish status.

Being honest and a hard worker is incredibly difficult because you make other people in your work environment look bad. Myself am branded the "evil" one, the "bad seed" in my work because I do not socialise, nor do I do f*ck-all when the boss isn't around... I am at work to WORK, not make fake friends who will backstab me first chance they get (speaking by experience by the way).

Basically the hardest part is having to accept this as part of reality. People in general, although will deny it and never admit it, are selfish evil hypocrites who will only do what's best for their own selfish goals, including taking it out on the honest people, like you and me for example. The world has literally shifted backwards where the good are punished and the evil win. "Hard work is rewarded by punishment" is a saying I've been saying for ages now...

So try to be strong... Don't let idiot humans get the better of you. I know it's hard, don't think I imagine it is easy... Because it is extremelly hard and demands constant effort. If you let these humans affect you, then you let them "win". You have to dis-associate yourself (your mind) from them, try to develop "barriers" (or "thick skin" like a guy once told me) so that these stupid humans will not affect you so much.

It may take ages, or it may be a question or a week or two, but don't give up hope on yourself. If you give up, you are letting those typical human scum win...

And yes, I am a mysanthrope... I have always had anti-social tendancies, but over the last 10 or so years, I developped a true hatred towards humanity because people are prooving to me every single day that they are selfish and hypocrites. So to me, life is a constant struggle, a struggle I must never stop for fear of either becoming one of those humans, or letting them "kill" me.

And of course, people hate me because I follow rules, have etiquette, social concious (!), and I refuse to associate myself with anyone. When you don't join a "clique", people hate you because they think you're against them for not joining them.

Hope this helps a bit.

Hey, I feel that way sometimes. I felt rejected a lot when I was little, especially when I was sick, and now I'm trying to get over that. If you are feeling down, maybe you could go out and help children, or others who are suffering? If you want others to love you for who you are, show them that you are a great person. Don't worry what other people think, only concentrate on what you think about yourself.

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