My husband......?

Question:

We have been together for about 6 years and for the most part we get along great. About two years or so ago we began to fight/argue and the arguements escalated into physical abuse. Yes, he did hit me. I held in there for a little while but eventually I couldn't take it anymore so I went to a shelter and stayed for some time. The people there helped me to understand what was happening and I buit my strength back. My husband began councilling for abusive men, a 16 week course and came out of it a different person.
It's been a year since he finished his councilling and I talk to my councillors when I need them but lately, for about two or three months no my husband has become verbally abusive. He is calling me names, bringing up my past (like 25 years ago) and bringing up my inadequesies (we all have some, right?)
I have asked him why and he doesn't know. He is always sorry for talking to me that way and when I threaten to leave he becomes terrified.

Answers:
I'm here to tell you he will never change..I am very sorry you are going thru this,t I have been there..After going to 7 shelters (yes i was the one that kept going back)...for 7 years he use and abuse me. He ended up in jail for 3 months..then for 2 years ...he went to groups and still no change....He cried and begged...( good men never cry)..And i just kept going back...and each time is worst..I ended up in the hospital with broken nose..2 inches away from my eye and needed reconstruction surgery..(.horrible the surgery).He threatend to stabb me on my neck and attempted to throw boiling hot water and oil on me.and kept me hostage with my daughter in my home....He went to jail so many times for breaking my order of protection...finally when the police saw that he will never change they deported him.....he have been in his country now for about 7 months..now ..My only fear is that he will cross the boarders...And i pray to god that he never cross the boarders...

LEAVE AT ONCE!! GO BACK TO THE SHELTER, ANYWHERE BUT THERE! CAN'T YOU SEE THE PATTERN IS ALREADY REPEATING????? THIS TIME HE MAY KILL YOU.

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