am i the only person who has managed to annoy themself?

Question: i actually managed to give myself a headache. all the things i want to change about myself seem to really annoy me today. i can't figure out how to change stupid habits like how i can't seem to stick to a plan once i come up with it and i'm too indecisive to make things work (i choose not to put in as much effort and call it caution). plus i find it hard to figure out what i want and what i;m feeling. how can i trust that it won't change tomorrow. living one day at a time like AA meetings suggest doesn't work unless you can see the big picture and plan some of it.

Answers:
everyone gets annoyed at them selves. at some time or another. if it is really things you want to change well change them. yes easily said, difficult to do. set small goals. things you know may seem ridiculous, but you know you can accomplish. such as just an ex. doing the dishes every night before bed. when you see your able to stick with the simple things in life. move to a bigger goal. take them one thing at a time so you can see the accomplishment and your not overwhelmed by huge amounts. it will take time but if you take baby steps in the beginning you will start seeing things come together. be realistic with yourself though. you will always be your worst critic. good luck.

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trust me. ur not the only one. i give myself a headache all the time, cuz im streesed... trust me. theres plenty more peeps out there...

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