Is this normal?

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I was married at 15 to a very abusive man mentaly and phisicly i Just this past year left have been separated almost a year. After 11years with him . I find myself very cold .when it comes to hugging and kissing i feel so uncomfortable . I have a guy now this really upsets him .I do really have feelings i just feel very akward expressing them . When he touches me I flinch I do not mean to.

Answers:
its normal to be that way after so long in an abusive relationship , we always say forgive the situation never forget the lesson , this takes time problem because his affection was a way of making up for his actions. Your partner will work threw this for you if he loves you . Time heals and it wouldnt hurt to go to a few classes or support groups so you can help heal yourself your not alone and it helps to be with real people who have been there and are healing too ,you deserve to have good things happend for you.

normal. it will take some time. poor thing.

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