if i fear to meet stranger like talking to them and if i fear to eat alone at restaurant?

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WHATS WRONG WITH ME?

Answers:
I think you are just real shy. Don't know how to talk to strangers or what to say. If you try little by little then you might break away from that

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youre xenophobic

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your not human

I think that's pretty common. I am the same way. I don't usually start conversations with strangers, because I never know what to say. I guess I am a little shy towards people I don't know.
I used to not like to eat alone either, but if you force yourself to a couple of times, you will get over that.

Nothing. Those aren't uncommon fears or discomforts. Few people enjoy eating alone at restaurants (notice you don't see a lot of people doing it) and most of us were taught from a young age to be wary of strangers, so (especially for shy or introverted people) a lot of folks won't speak to someone they don't know, unless they are spoken to first.

If you don't like being the way you are, then work to change it. Start small...say "hi" to someone you don't know when you are out and about...ask the cashier who checks you out at the store, how s/he is doing that day...go to a fast food place and order food or a soda and sit at a table and consume it, before leaving.

Eventually, you'll find the fear is less...it may not go away completely (or it may) but you'll have confidence in knowing you can do those things, and thus other things that also trouble you may come easier as well.

Good luck!

i am the same way and dont know why or how to fix it. I dont know that i fear it but i get really nervouse and turn red alot.

The doctors would probably bill it as Social Anxiety Disorder. Basically, it means your shy or intimidated by social interaction. Without going on some ridiculous medication, go out with your friends when possible. Ask them for help introducing yourself to new people. After a while, you'll probably feel more confident in yourself, and be able to do this on your own. If it's causing a major problem in your social or romantic life, there are probably some counselors in your area that can help. There's nothing wrong with you. There are a lot of people out there dealing with the same issues.

nothing your just shy
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