am tring to sort out my life..feel like evrything is out of control..?

Question:

when things get out of hand all i want to do is escape and so ill have a few drinks, and next thing i know i am wasted and then feel crap for days, know i shoulndt drink but i can stand how i feel all the time and it is the only reprieve from the saddness..any advice??

Answers:
I'd say patience and trust get you nothing but boredom, depression and being frustrated.

Try to solve your problems. You didn't specify them but get help! Talk to someone about it. Can't be worse than ending up as an alcoholic. Talk to your parents. Apologize to people you have hurt. If you owe someone money talk to them about paying it back and needing time. If you lost your job keep on searching. Don't spend your day drinking. If your boyfriend left you and you're depressed because of this go to the gym and work-out. You'll be distracted and get to know new people.

YOU need to get active. Other people might have ideas of how to solve your problems.

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All problems resolve by themself sooner or latter. patience of mind and trust in ourself gives results

Get to an AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) meeting.

Perhaps you don't believe you are actually an alcoholic, but if you turn to drink to regularly escape our life.you have a problem with drinking.

Facing your life (and this problem) instead of running to ANYTHING to numb yourself will be a first step to getting your life back to on a positive path.

positivity ma =good question-i had this problem once too-the answer-yes u need hope-something to be joyfully anticipating-i lost hope once in my life-and what helped me most was-a prayer-based on what is said in the bible; Jesus said, I knock on your heart door to enter, forgive your sins and become your friend" so i prayed "Jesus come into my heart, im sorry for my sins-help me and be my friend, amen" and that gave me hope for this life joyfull anticipation and for the one to come. i am prayin for u positivity-david ty

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