does anyone have a good idea?

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i thnk this is just horrible i feel defeated.suicidal ?or something like that. down. i thought i could get used to the fact of having lost all contacts with my friends when i moved out of state with new husband. i only got inot a worse situation than i had been living in. i was single i had use of my wheelchair to get out of the house and meet people. the past year i have not been able to use it, it has been stored. all i keep hearing is one day when we have money to rent a garage, or move where you can use it again. .yesterday i had a chance to be with people again, the whole day.today it sucked. i was back with 3 cats and no one except the t.v., lost my old settings i made a mistake on yahoo, can't find the people i used to chat with can not remember their real addresses. .even this comp. has no one again. am angry that he goes to work and sees other "real" people. i have cats all day. i'm just so mad i'm afraid where my anger will take me. i never hurt anyone else, but me. scared

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Try the Scooter Store as advertised on TV

My advice is that you talk to your husband about the way you are feeling immediately!! He needs to know about this because you are in this together. I also think you should try and talk to other people. Is there anyway you could meet people in your town or through a community center? Do not give up! You will make it through this. I will pray for you. If you need anything else contact me through my other questions.

Join a wheelchair/disabled person's club.
get that freaking wheelchair out! You need fresh air and sun. No if ands or buts. Freaking crawl if you have to!

You're just in a new situation. You do have to make adjustments.
I'm sorry that you feel so down. You should insist that he takes your wheelchair out of storage. If only so as you can get out of the house for an hour or two. Have you told him how you've been feeling? Maybe it's time to have a serious talk. Good Luck.

get out of the house ASAP, call someone if you need to help you out, call now!!

I think you need to stand up for yourself. First, calm down. He loves you, and you know that. Think about all the kind things he has done for you. Then when he gets home, tell him that you need your wheelchair. And you need it now. Explain your situation to him, and tell him why this wheel chair means so much to you.

Then, join some sort of club. An online club, or a "real life" club. Make some new friends.

Stop watching TV. I often find that just makes me feel worse. Clean the house. Get into cooking. Learn to knit. Buy something off ebay. Sell stuff on ebay. Go to a store, or have him go to a store, and buy some things for you to do. I know that sounds wierd. Do some 3D puzzles. Go onto Amazon and order a bunch of books. I suggest the "His Dark Materials" Books. They are not depressing (except maybe the last one a little bit). Open all the windows. Turn on all the lights.

You can email me if you want. abigillygal@yahoo.com

I hope this helps. :)
Also, remember this: The world is huge. There are so many things out there to do. It feels right now like you just want to die, but think about things. What do you want to do? Go to spain? China? Live for those things. Just for a while, until you can get your life back.

Get someone to get your wheelchair honey! Why won't your husband give it to you. Tell him that you need to get outta your house. Tell him how you feel. If he doesn't do anything, call a family memeber whats going on or find someone to get you one soon! It isn't right what is going on with you.

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