what gets you really annoyed?
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Dear girl, don't you know that when people act like they're better than you because of their higher status job, or when they make more money, it is because they are projecting their own insecurities onto you?
They do not really think that they are better then you. They just want YOU to think that they are better than you, because they WANT to be. They suffer from inferiority issues, and they overcompensate by projecting those feelings of insecurity.
We all want to feel important, acknowledged, admired, and appreciated (for the same reasons you made this remark under the guise of a question). It's just bad form for these people to validate themselves at the expense of others. Healthier people such as yourself, find self acceptance and worth through accomplishing things, rather than bringing others down.
They just do not know a better way. They lack your self acceptance and coping skills. You should forgive them for these shortcomings and pity them. Take the high road. Rise above their pettiness.
I hope that this gives you some comfort and insight. Maybe the next time someone disses you, you will remember to think to yourself "now just WHO are you trying to convince (of your superiority)?" And you will find some peace and dignity.
Liars get me steamed. I HATE liars.
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