What should I do?
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I am so sorry that has happened to you. Please don't hurt yourself. I know it's hard when you feel like this, I go through similar issues, but try to be more positive and hang out with people who like you for who you are. If you see your mom, tell her what she has done to you and tell her that it's affected your life. Get it off your chest. Next time someone treats you bad, tell them off, don't let them step on you anymore.
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honey, you should NOT be with him. he's a jerk and you deserve to have people that truly care about you around. i would also confront your mother on this, she has ruined your self esteem and if she doesn't care, i would cut ties with her, at least for now.
First, quit drinking (for now). Next, get rid of your sh***y boyfriend that should stand up for you no matter what. Then get some professional counseling. It took years for the people that are supposed to love you break you down. It going to take some time to build yourself back up. You need to put yourself above all others. And please take my advice about seeing a professional - you deserve to be happy and loved, no matter what other people may say - but it begins with you. he was totally out of line! you deserve better treatment than that!
at least your friends stood up to him which in itself shows you what a good person that your are - they obviously dont think like that a$$ does.
dont listen to what he or anyone else says ( iknow, easier said than done) but he is not worth the hastle, you are a beauiful person and im certain that if you asked any of ur friends they would tell u the same thing.
You are in charge of your life now! Get away from "friends" that are negative! You don't need them.
If you are religious, find a church that is friendly and welcoming.
If not, get involved in your community, volunteer at a senior center or pet shelter. You'll meet new people and feel better about your life.
First, i think your mom is full of ****. My father is just like your mom, I am 21 and since last year I began to point out my father that he is not really so smart, and that I am not the stupid kid he thougth I was, and if in fact i look like a f@g, then why some really cute girls like me.
About people outside of the family, first you got to be indifferent to whatever they say about you, however look around. The guy who was calling you stuff that night, I bet you can find deffects on his body and/or personality, so let him know about them when time is best suitable (which is when he is already having a bad time).
One problem there is that bullies often find peolpe who won't fireback so they keep constantly picking on them.
It is pretty hard to deal with all the stuff parents fill you with while growing up, but in my experience, feels good to know one of my father's problem was his fear of me outsmarting him, and now, seeing him struggling with the most simple stuff in life, well I realize what is the problem with him.
first, ditch the loser, no man should ever disrespect you like that. second, seek counseling. your pastor should do it for free and spiritual based counseling is very good and more effective to me, 3rd, surropund yourself with all your good friends and have fun. sorry to hear about your mum
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