I REALLY need to be more confident and control my emos better, any good "tips"?

Question:

since being too inconfident really affects everything i do\say. im TOO shy that ppl think im kinda snobbish that i wouldn't even talk to them. and the too much emotions! gosh, i can't control my emotions, not even infront of strangers, if im angry, then I AM ANGRY, and i can't really hide it. can not conrol my tears too, which realllly embarrasses me the most, i really hate how it shows the weak and the so fragile person i am, esp when im tryin to look the exact opposite, or it's really unnecessary!

Answers:
You should take these problems you seem to have light-heartedly.

Work on being more approachable, smile and nod when passing people you know and people you work with. People might think you are anti-social when really you just don't feel like you need the company of others. I used to be "anti-social" in school and people shyed away from me. I realize that I could have been a lot more popular if I simply made myself happy and welcoming. You don't need to make friends with people you don't feel compatible with, just make it look sort of possible.

I think this is the core of your problem. You might think that your presentation is not important but IT REALLY IS TRULY!

Learn to laugh at yourself when you make mistakes.

- Smile
- Greet (even if it's a simple "hey" or "howdy")

Actually, now that I have re-read your question description, I'm probably way off. Oh well. Take from this what you find useful, if any.

Other Answers:
therapy

Age will help too.

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