feel insecure what can i do?

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i need a help i have a big problem with myself and i don't know what i can do for that. I can't go out of my home.It's a big problem for me because when i have some appointement with doctor or other think i cancel everytime. It's a major problem, because see that my husband have a convention and i have to go with him so i have to quit my home for 4 days and i feel bad during all that time and when it's vacation time everytime a find an excuse for stay home and my good excuse is my sickness i have M.S and i use that to tell everytime i cancel some appointement please don't tell me go see a psychiatric because i make it and she give me some pills for bipolare person. i remember that i have that since i was a 3 or 4 years old. i feel insecure and everytime when i have to go i can't relax and i'm afraid about some thief come home and stole me or more i'm afraid if i'm not here about the fire. when i was teenage someone put fire in my house during vacation maybe it's the reason. Help me ?

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satrt slowly. Camp in your back yard. them stay with a friend or family member for 3 day, but only to sleep there. you can be home every other time.

then as you go, take a thing that we call "time out" it where you go away for the week end. you leave your cellphone and everything in comunication at home. Go with your husband but dont plan anything. your husband must one day just wake up and say come we going out. you cant cancel an appointment you havent got.

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Your Husband should drag you to a bridge and push you off with elastic jump, get you on a plane and make you jump off a parachute, make you go down a bobsleigh. real life after will seam quite safe.

must see doctor. You are obviously effected by a serious condition and should see your doctor as well as a psychiatrist as soon as possible.

don't despair. your not different to anybody out here. its that we don't let things get to us ( well most of the time) look at things in a different light your lucky you've got air in your lungs you've got life. think I'm a miracle of life. be positive- your great.

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I think you should cool down and look into yourself for the source of all the stuff that's happening to you.
And the only sources of what we say,do or the way we react is from the conceptions in our mind. The bible says something about it -As a man thinket so he his- Out of the aboundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.

So i think you have allowed into your heart the fear of not leaving your house , this might have been as a result of your life path circumstances(experience in life) but there is nothing you can do about that now anyway, cos you can't go back to the past . What i think you should do is to first pray to GOD to remove the fear out of you and also try to get yourself to have a paradigm shift that you staying in your house won't save the house from whatever will happen to it, that the only reason why your house is still there is not becos of your own doing but becos of GOD that has been showing mercy. I mean if the house starts burning will the fire stop becos u are in house? No.

So just lay everything up to God and i assure you he will make everything work together for you , as long as you recieve Jesus as lord, continue in his love .
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