should i leave him? 2?

Question:

well my boyfriend has just got a new job, where he hasn't got no time for me. and when i do see him, which is rarely, he is so miserable and very disrespectful towrds me now. he has changed from the sweet, loving and caring guy i started going out with, to a vile, 2 faced pig....but I LOVE HIM lol. my feelings cannot change so easily, like his. it is those times when i dislike him, that i talk to this other guy, and we have got so close, because he understands me. this is the guy i keep dreaming of... should i leave my boyfriend of 2 years because of the way he is acting now? or should i stay with him, and hope that he goes back to the person he once was ?

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This shitty part about this web page is....
1.) you get idiots who just want to cause drama,
2.) you get answers from people who have never been in committed relationships, and
3.) you get kids who aren't even old enough to vote!

So listen close if you want some insight. My name is Nicole, I've been married for 7 yrs and have 3 kids. I got married right out of high school before my 18th birthday. It sound like i may be close to your age. Anyway before I got married to my husband, I knew him for 2 1/2 yrs. My husband and I have seen many bad time, and we have also seen really good times too. I guess when your faced with difficult decision the best thing you could do is walk away for a little while until the anger subsides. When you make a decision while your even slightly mad it never seem to be the best decision.
For your dilemma, you must take into consideration his possible reasoning for being a pig to you. Answer these questions for yourself. Is he under more stress at his new job? Is he expected to do more at his new job? Is he expected to learn more/new stuff for his job? S3X? lol I hate to say it but guys get cranky when they stop getting all the attention they are use to? All these things are definite stress factors that would make anyone grouchy.
I can't tell you what to do, but I can tell you what I would do. I would show up at his new job and take him out for lunch. I would ask him things about work to see if I could gain insight into his work environment. If he said everything was great then I would start asking questions about us and our relationship. If he started putting off negative vibes then I would probably warn him that if things don't change and soon then I was done! I would tell him that I was sick of being treated like crap and that I know I deserve better. If he begs you to stay then you know he still loves you, however if he acts uninterested then break it off so your free to fool around with whoever is fair game! Hopefully this bit of info help you and if not, then I'm sorry for putting my 2 cents in.
Good luck and I hope everything works out just the way you want it too.
~~~NICK~~~

Obviously you aren't getting the answer YOU want.

If you have fallen for this other guy, then obviously you DON'T love "your man."

Leave him and save him a lot of pain in the future. Let him find someone who won't be dreaming of other guys.

Leave the vile, two-faced pig & give the other guy a chance, then when he becomes a pig, find a new guy. Some girls kiss frogs that become princes, the rest kiss princes that turn into pigs! You deserve better.

Stop casting pearls before swine! Tee hee

Good luck!

dont leave him quite yet let things kinda play out and see if he is still like this then if thing dont change maybe u should talk to him aboout it if u love him ur not gonna break up with him so quickly

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