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Every damn job that I have had, someone has pointed out to me that I am defensive, strong willed or something else. As far as being/ sounding defensive- I think that I am just overly sensitive and I try to work on it, but its like I cant. I dont know how to react to certain situations to where I end up reacting negatively about it. And end up hating everyone there. As far as strong willed- I dont see anything wrong with it other than it may seem that I may on the attack of that person when speaking to them. I dont mean to come across that way.I really dont. I just want to tell them to get my point across. I just cant take constructive critism well I guess.

I really dont know why I am this way. I cant explain it. I am so tired or people complaining about me, telling me that same **** over and over, my mom not wanting to listen to me and telling me that I whine and complain too much when she complains too and I have to hear about it

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Answers:
Maybe you're just dealing with the wrong kind of people. Some people are just moron-magnets (like myself.) I got yelled at the other day for saying "Jeese John!" When my foods classmate upturned all my kebabs in the oven.
On the other hand, maybe people think you're arrogant. From what you're saying, it sounds like these people aren't just being kind and telling you how to correct your faults, they're labeling you as "strong willed" or "defensive"
Do you have a high amount of self esteem and do you show it off? Are you confident and don't need a large group of friends to accomplish tasks adequately? It may be that you're just dealing with jealousy to a certain extent. But next time, if someone gives you a helpful hint, remember that you're not superman and you can try that advice for next time. Smile and say thank you.

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