Will growing up, marrying and having children save me from my vanity obsession?


Question:
I am 20 yrs old but I have a vanity problem. I give way too much importance to the way I look, my skin, my hair, my body.. I really take care of myself and it really shows also. Is this a problem? How do I get rid of this obsession?

Answers:
There is nothing wrong with this obession. My mother-in-law is 68 this year and she is still vain. Thank goodness, she is age-appropriately vain. And since she is vain, she takes care of how she presents herself, through her look (hair body clothings) and her behaviours.

If you are aware that you give way too much attention to it, that's self-awareness & good sign that you start paying attention to other issues and other ways of overall self enhancing ... health & diet, mental and cognitive, social and interactive, etc etc.

Enjoy yourself ... be vain and love your looks ... improve it further and bring out the internal beauty ...
no, vanity is nothing more than a selfishness. its one thing to take care of yourself but quite another when it becomes an obsession that overrides daily things. just remember this, beauty fades but good character is forever.


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