I'm Bi-Polor, should I forgive my wife?

Question: I went to hospital 3 times 3 years ago. I accused her of having an afair and last year I caught her emailing this black guy named John. I admit our sex life was not the best. I forgave her then I caught him saying to her to meet hm at his place... I forgave her again but I took away her e-bay account and check book. Then I followed her and she was coming out of some apartments. She said she was on the way to the store. Then she said she should move out to her Moms. I agreed. Now I want her to come back with my son and she won't. I know I should hang it up but I will try anything to get my son back in my life. She lives 1200 miles away and it is too far to go.

Answers:
It doesn't sound like your forgiveness is the issue here. She does not want to live with you. Get used to it. Maybe if you take your therapy seriously and learn how to control yourself, she will reconsider.

In any case, you should have a right to visits from your son. Talk to your attorney about that.

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She is cheating... the courts are on your side... divorce her and take it all. Seriously... the courts are on your side... infidelity is bad bad bad. She is an unfit mother if she cheats on the childs father. Get yourself a mediocre lawyer and put her in the gutter where she belongs. Move on with your life and find a woman who loves you. Normally I am against divorce... but I couldnt ever trust a cheating wife again. Believe it or not, in most states, if you can actually prove beyond a reasonable doubt that infidelity occured, your wife can actually be conficted of adultry (a felony) and sent to prison. But to divorce, it isnt nearly as difficult to "prove". To divorce you just have to prove the reasonable likelihood of infidelity.

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