my friend cuts herself..?


Question:
i know everyone thinks its stupid but she says she does it to punish herself. she always thinks shes doing something wrong and she cant handle stuff. i feel so bad for her and i need some advice to tell her shes always sad and depressed!!

Answers:
This is a sign of a personality disorder called Borderline Personality. There are tons of books about this.
You can't help her. She needs lots of professional help.
Get a book on borderline personality disorder so you can understand it. Do a search on Amazon.com.

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you need to tell her family and have them take care of this,but also be her friend and give her support.
Tell her parents immediately. If she is an adult, call a doctor and explain to them the problem. The doctor should be able to get you in touch with someone who can help.
Well just talk to her she has someting in the inside that she dont want to say even though she says she is doing it from the inside and i dont think that is crazy because well i kind of do that right now n i know how she feels well just talk to her and make her tell u what she is feeling and also dont try to stop her because if she wants to do it let her she wants to hurt herself then beat it but try to talk to her!
She just needs to see a therapist and talk some things out. It's really not a difficult thing for a person to stop doing once some things are lifted off their shoulders. Above all else, be a friend.
I am not a doctor, but.. maybe you should talk to her and find out a reason for her "guilty in everything" position. There is no way she does everything bad. Something is going on, and you, as a friend, should try to help her. Do not push and do not judge, just listen and try to help. I wish your friends best of all!
Your friend needs some serious psychiatric help.The cutting is a control thing.She feels so helpless in her life that this is a way of exerting control over something.You need to tell her parents,or an adult you trust,a.s.a.p.!
u need to find out if she is suicidal u also need to let her know that if she is goin to somethin n regret it dont do it thats guilty conscience i dont think u can handle her she needs profesional help ok
I'm going through the same thing.she just needs someone to be there when she is alone. Those lonely times are the killers. That's when you feel nobody is really there. I don't know what to tell you, I haven't figured out what I need either.


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