i think i need therapy. can anyone help?


Question:
Im a guy, 18.When i was a young kid i was molested by my parents friends son and for a long time i couldnt get over it and didnt tell anyone... can you blame me? lol
From up to the end of high school ive felt horrible about it and having really bad visions in my head.. Through middle school i was always happy though when im around people im a really fun person. I didnt have a care in the world about anything, i could talk to girls, no anxiety nothing. Ive gone throuh a lot of family problems with my dad being sick and other things.

Im in college now and i find myself worrying about everything,anxious,acid reflux, i know im fairly attractive and i have some style..lol but i dont know why im afraid to go up to a girl checkin me out . Sometimes i questioning my sexuality...because of the whole molesting thing. i really dont want to like men its sick and gross. can anyone freaking help me with all my problems!!!!!!!!!!?

Answers:
Therapy would be a good place to start. Whatever you do, don't turn to drugs and alcohol for that would further devastate your problem. Just because you were molested doesn't make you gay. A therapist can help you work things out in your head. If you have faith in a Higher Power (I call mine GOD), pray that he eases your pain.
You are not weird, strange or abnormal. Many others have walked in these shoes and lead happy lives.
Good Luck and God Bless
yeah, a therapist....


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