I feel I dont have any one in this world?

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My problem is that i dont have any best friends.when ever i see 2 friends moving closely i feel sad and some times weep that i am not able to have one such friend.No one keeps his hand on me with affection.I am really dieing for love from a friend.what to do?I have always been an abandoned person from my child hood .I want to have a best friend to show my great love and receive his love as well.what to do to win best friend as fast as possible?

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I am really sorry about your situation. I can be your friend and if you want to talk to email me. maybe i can help. but right now you are really needy and you need to be secure and not be so overly desperate cause you will bring it out into the relationship so what i woudl sugges is.

try to get over this feeling of lonliness by doing some thing fun with hobbies or join a club? be confident in who you are, hold yourself up! no one wants to be with a weak and negative person. so you need to snap out of this and look at life in a positive way.

If you are unhappy now..how can you be with someone and be happy? you need to love yourself first...if you emit positiviness and a uplifting outlook ..you will have friends...

Wow. This is NOT going to solve your problem. You are unhappy with you--and that's why you don't have any "best friends." You aren't dying from this. And trying to "win a best friend as soon as possible" is not good. Not good for the other person. You will surely become addicted to that person and everyone needs space. You'll hold them hostage and smother them.

You need to get help--professional help from a therapist.

First, are you shy? That may part of it? Please don't feel like no one loves you. There are always people out there that will. Unfortunetaly you have to go out and find them. Its what makes this crazy world keep turning. All the different people out there.
Give yourself some patience, get out, go to a shopping center, or a movie, or strike up a conversation somewhere, anywhere , and don't be afraid to give up on it either if someone isn't receptive. Someone out there will be eventually. Trust me on this one.

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