Is the only way to get over a tradgedy that someone caused by forgiveness?
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That's a good question (or 3). I'm dealing with that right now. My sister and I fought and then she refused to talk to me for 2 years (I didn't know how to contact her and she didn't want me to). I decided to consider her dead and move on. Well then she calls me a month ago. So what do I do? Just forgive her? Does that imply forgetting also? Or do I always remember what she did but just understand that she had her reasons and that from her perspective she was doing the right thing. If you don't forgive them, where does that leave you? Just angry and bitter every time you think of that person? Is that making you better off? I think from a selfish point of view it's better for you to forgive even though your ego doesn't want you to because it feels like they win.
Try to avoid that person whenever you meet him
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