Thanks to everyone who answered my question "Am I wrong?"?
Question:
I have been talking to my husband about his kids and our problems...I am still in a turmoil. So many of you have advised me to leave...fast but I am scared!
I haven't worked for 6 years (except take care of my family) and mentally I am so down, my self esteem is shot, I have none. Not sure that I am strong enough to face a shelter again in this state.
I'm afraid to stay as well because I just don't think I can take this abuse anymore. I'm really twisted!
Today I find out that my step daughter is lying about me, saying that I was going to hit her when we had an arguement last night and that I did hit (slap) a friend that was here. WRONG!!!! I can't even step on an ant. This is to much and has been going on for to long and I am beaten down by it to the point that I can't make a decision to defend myself.
Anyway, thank you to all who care so much:-)
Answers:
I did it! You can too! I am 42, with no formal training. I was in an abuse relationship with a man, and had 4 step-kids. It was a real mess. I got out, got a job, and now live in an apartment and pay my own bills with no help! You will find out that you have more friends than you think when you get out. People brought me clothes, food, dishes, sheets, etc. It was wonderful, and I could not of gotten started with out them. God Bless you! You CAN do it!! If you like you can email me.
Take care hon.
Get to a safe place.
Find a friend you can trust.
Make that 1st step into taking care of YOU
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