Can you still be gay even if you don't want to be gay?


Question:
I don't really know if I am or not. but I kind of like men, but still DON'T want to be gay or like men.

Answers:
Then dont be gay! You obviously arent sold on the idea - so DONT DO IT. If you kind of like men - then you kind of like women too? If so - Choose the path of least resistance.

Other Answers:
yes if you keep acting like you are

I think most gay people would rather conform to the norm, but I don't think they have a choice. This is all guessing on my part. Yeah, you're born that way, it's not a choice. there is nothing superior or inferior about the way you are no matter what anyone tells you so just love and live who you are. That's the quickest way to happiness and contentment.


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Could you be struggling with this because your family doesn't except gay people? You can't help your attraction to people, if you are gay you're gay buddy.

it depends on belief. some people believe that it's a choice and some think you are born with it or it's genetic. nature vs. nurture. but anyways you could be bi-sexual if you like both sexes. or even a-sexual it you like neither. you're not the first to feel that way. did you see that Oprah show with the panel of gay guys? none of them wanted to be gay. but they came to accept it after a while.


a good friend of mine said you know why is it so important to put an etiquette on what you are? just live your life as it comes and see what it does to you..


they're still arguing the fact of whether or not homosexuality is caused by a gene, upbringing, environment, or whatever.
talk to someone you know you can trust and be honest, that's the only way you're gonna find out what's what. to thyne own self be true.

No. I think that anyone that is gay chooses to be gay. I do not believe that anyone is BORN gay. yes nothing wrong with being gay. gay people have great fashion sences




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