Do people with bipolar disorder make up lies and have problems staying in relationships?


Question:
My husband is bipolar and his moods seem to be getting worse. I notice that he is deceptive to people and "wants what he wants". It seemed to worsen about 5 years ago when we had a major trauma in our family that has been resolved, but he shut his feelings down. Some advice would be appreciated. Thanks, Jgopherjj.

Answers:
To answer the question: Sometimes (just like any other people).
To address your situation: Is your husband under the care of a psychiatrist? If not, it is imperative that he establish a good working relationship with a doctor he can fully trust--don't be afraid to shop around. Sometimes at least two professionals are needed, the psychiatrist to prescribe meds and another person to help the patient live with the condition (e.g. a psychologist) If he is already seeing someone, might you be able to come to one of his appointments? This might be the most constructive way to express your concerns. I suspect the "major trauma" hasn't actually been resolved since it has had a lasting impact on your husband (and since you bring it up). Psychotherapy and/or homeopathy could be helpful here if he's receptive. I think the main hurdle with bipolar people is getting them to acknowledge and eventually embrace and learn to work with disorder, but I can't tell from your posting where in this process your husband might be. Good luck to you both.
I was biopolar for 16 years. I was in relationships that were long term and went well. It was easier when I was stable, but i was honest


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