Question about depression and anxiety.?
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I think you should see a doc. You've stated all the classic signs- the crying, losing interest, feeling worthless, and the cycle. BUT- there are a lot of side-effects from teens using anti-depressants. They only prescribe them for extreme cases and are closely monitored, as they can actually may make the depression worse.
Maybe you could try counseling. It has been proven to work for some people. Also, if you can, try getting out of the house. Volunteer, exercise, take a class.. it will help to build your self-esteem up- not to mention the endorphins and energy from the exercise. Another thing that causes depression symptoms to worsen is too much sugar in your diet. They give you a high-like happy feeling, and then leave you feeling like crap until you eat more.
Don't let anyone tell you how to feel. You're old enough to recognize when your body is out of whack, and you seem like an intelligent woman. You're mom might be trying to support you by telling you you'll be fine, but there's no harm in merely talking to a doctor. If you've got the guts- which a lot of people with depression don't- then go for it.
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A medical Dr. can prescribe something to help you. It will make a big difference once it gets in your system. I have been on Effexor for 11 years. I can tell when I miss one.
You should really see a doctor. If you have depression it could lead to worse things. Please check the internet for bipolar disorder and get your mom to read it with you. Depression is serious. I know because it affects my mother, my 2 sisters and my son. Please get your mom to let you see a doctor and very soon. Some sadness in teens is normal, its part of puberty etc. Ever heard of growing pains? No joke. Too much is bad for everyone. Medication isn't always the best solution but a doctor could help you figure out other ways too. Try reducing stress in your life, by eating right, creating a schedule to balance homework etc, excersinging regularly, and sleep regulary. If none of this helps you may want to talk again to your mother about seeing a doctor. Good luck!
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a doctor. i'm on clonazepam for anxiety. my daughter was taking it too for a while, i'm not sure what she is taking now. anxiety and depression are not fun to have. you should see someone. Sure sounds like it to me.but be careful with the meds. They say if they give it to you too young, it can increase risks of suicide.
They also say you should continue doing things you like, even if you are not enjoying them at the moment. I say, try to punch through those walls, and if you don't like what you are doing, try something else.
Its not your imagination hunny. You do sound like you would benefit from talking to a psychologist and possibly taking some medication. If your mother in unrelenting in not letting you see a doctor to talk about this, this is a bit of a white lie, but could work.
Complain of a sore throat for a few days and tell your mom you think you have strep. You have to go to the doctor to get a strep test and medicine for that, right? While your there, admit the fib and talk to the doctor about your feelings. Regular doctors can perscribe anti-depressants and maybe if he or she talked to your mother she might be more understanding.
As I said, its a bit dishonest, but getting treatment and feeling better is much more important. Good luck to you, my dear. And, (cheesy as it may be) Remember that it is always darkest before dawn.
I think when you feel this way, it is important (especially when you feel the need to talk to someone), to talk to someone about how you feel. If you think it will help, then it will. Unfortunately depression even though it is different for everyone creeps up on us unexpectedly. Doctors (or general Practitioners as they're called here) can help you with general things, but sometimes it is better to see a counsellor (if you have someone at high school) as they often deal with students and have experience in that area. Psychiatrists are good too, if you find the right one for you. Sometimes just talking about your problems or how you feel about yourself to sisters, best friends helps a lot. It helps them to understand you and your problem better. Young people go through this a lot, and you shouldn't try to ignore if it keeps coming back up. Medication is not necessarily the best way to go, as your mother may be concerned about that aspect. Depression is a state of mind, and a condition set by yourself. If you can let others help you, you can help yourself :). yes , it would be wise to go see a doctor . they can do tests on you and put you on medication that could help . and for you to ask this question , you are crying for help . please sweetie , talk to your doctor . you won't regret it . their is help for anxieties attacks or depressions . so many things happens in this world , it's depressing sometimes . but also life can be beautiful too . best wishes , and god bless you & your mom and good luck !
You know as a young adult or even later in life people go through changes in their lives..sometimes it's just a temporary thing but often it has to do with the chemical imbalance in our brains..after reading what you are going through please have your mom get you someone to talk with. These may be emotions that you just need to work through or maybe you need medication..in any case you are not alone.thousands of people suffer with the same problems you describe..some seek treatment others ignore it and hope it goes away..don't wait until you feel worse.
You might be.. take it from me i suffer from bipolar and it wasnt easy at 1st but after i learn why i was feelin the way i was feelin im able to live a lil . go see a doctor just so u can tell them how u feel if sumthin is wrong than ull be able to handle it b4 it gets worse and trust me bein in a deep depression isnt a great feelin...who knos ur mom might be right my advice 2 u go talk 2 some1 wats the worst thing could happen ???
I don't think what you need is to go on medications, they would only suppress the real problem but not solve them. Your mum is right to an extent you know. Adolescent react this way just when they start developing and becoming a woman, your body is changing, and i am telling you, it could cause some form of anxiety.
And at the same time it might not be. It could be an emotional disorder that you need to deal with. Pray about what you are going through and seek counsel. Make up with your friends again and try going out. Do things you think you can enjoy. I believe with time, you will overcome this.
If your mom won't help, try your school councelor. Maybe if your mom is contacted by her she might take it more seriously. This should never go untreated and yes everyones has these phases in life but if its not and she is letting it float by it could get worse and we don't want that so talk to someone, anyone, the councelor, a family member, a friends mom. Just talk to someone and get it out there. You definitely need to see a doctor. He may prescribe you something, or he may just have you do therapy, or a little of both. regardless, let your mom know that you really need to see a doctor! depression left alone can get worse.
maybe you could start by talking to your school counselor, and they can talk to your parents.
good luck to you!
I suffer from anxiety and depression. It took me along time to get help for myself. I always thought it would go away, or I could help myself. I had the problem for over 20 yrs before I just could not take it anymore and went to see a therapist. She recommend that I see a Psychiatrist to get on meds. I am a new person now. Check out (http://www.reducingstress.net ) there is a lot of great articles and expert advice on the subject there.
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