upset over my jealousy?

Question:

I am so upset with myself for feeling like this. I don't know where it came from, but I hate feeling this way. My sister has a friend (boy) who is starting to pay for her mortgage, bills, and tells her he is going to buy her a huge house with horses, car etc etc....I struggle everyday working and I still am struggling with bills, mortgage, etc.. How can I get rid of feeling so jealous? I can't even be happy for her!

Answers:
this SAME exact thing happened with my sister!!!
Her boyfriend got out of the army and recieved $20,000. They bought everything, a new car, new furniture for their new apartment and they were always having parties. I was really jealous and wanted them to break up. It's really hard though, but I looked at it as, well, I'm providing for myself so I should feel proud of myself for not living off of someone else. Try not to let it bring you down! Money can only make a person happy for a little while, if there isn't love there.
Don't look at what she has. Look at what you have and come to terms that there is always going to be someone that has something bigger and better. Surround yourself with great friends!!

hey, you are just being normal, thats life, its never fair.

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