Why do i feel bad about this?

Question:

We had our homecoming last friday and there was a party on saturday for it. I went but i DID NOT DRINK ANYTHING. Other people on the team were there and drinking. Then our seniors today at practice talked to all of the team and said those who were drinking were selfish and uncaring and uncomitted to our season and to the team. Another said even if you were there and werent drinking you were still part of the party and that makes no difference. I do feel bad about this and how can i get over this? I never realized this but i now feel like i let them down just for going.

Answers:
Dumb ***, they were just sucking up to the coach

Please go easy on yourself. It was your choice not to drink as it was your teammates' choice to drink. I say bravo for not drinking, that required strength of character.

Perhaps you felt bad about the situation because you felt that you were responsible for the event, no matter how small your your interaction was. We are given intellect, you can only be held responsible for your own actions.

don't feel bad. it's just non-alcoholic propaganda.

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