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Hey, I'm pokesdlt's friend the one she was talking about. I know how you feel. I've been there. Cutting is a serious addiction, like smoking, drinking or drugs. I slipped up and I talked to one of my friends about it years ago and for about 6 months after that I was under constant observation. The fact that they cared was enough for me to stop. Even today I get the itch (you know what I mean), and I'm not perfect, I've given into it a couple times. Last week, was the first time I'd done it in almost 7 years. I felt extremely guilty afterwards.
Basically what I'm saying is that it is not easy to give up cutting. It doesn't matter the reasons for it. Psychological or not, it's something that happens every day with a lot of people. If you do it for cosmetic reasons (scarring) then it needs to be done professionally, with clean knifes. not a razor blade from home. If you're doing it for sympathy (and I'm not saying you are) then it's probably working, lol. If you do it because it gets your mind of the important things in life, then you need to stop, because it is only a temporary solution to what is going on.
Find some one you care about. some one you trust. and some one that cares about you. Talk to them about it. If it is as bad as you say it is, then you've probably been refered to a psychiatrist a couple of times. Talking to complete strangers about your problems isn't a horrible idea, they have no room to judge, and if you don't like them, then you never have to see them again.
I hope this helps, if you need some one to talk to, my e-mail is gabbyx19@yahoo.com.
I hope you will accept the help offered to you by those that really do care.
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It's called body modification. If you go BMEZine.com you will see a lot of people like you. There are addictions to modify your body. I used to cut myself for the scars too (youth is a very strange time), but not because I wanted to hurt myself and I never did it for attention.
go to a doctor and get help! I guess it's just a fetish like you said. Or a faze, I use to cut myself for depression though, not happiness, el oh el.
You should talk to a psychiatrist, this type of behavior is dangerous and could have roots in childhood events. Good luck.
I would advise you to get a therapist immediately, because if you really do that you have some major issues.
u need some serious help..if u love life u hav to live..if u keep cutting urself u will die soon.. Alot of people cut themselves when they are hurt or stressed it puts the pain away from their mind into where ever they are cutting. It is commonely a depression doing. There are places you can go to get help.the first place you should go is to your mom or dad, school counselor someone you feel comfortable talking to. e-mail me i have a friend that you can talk to I'll give you her e-address.
u should really think about getting professional help. its really important that u do this, otherwise u could seriously hurt urself. u could cut into an artery and bleed to death or u could get a nasty infection from having an open wound. a professional will help u figure out why u have this fetish and what u can do to change the behavior. please at least consider this because something bad could really happen to u if u dont!
This is a common thing. Best is talking to good therapist. If not then anyone. Also write down exactly what you feel when you want to cut. See this site.
http://phifoundation.org/teen.html
Get a corset piercing. Cutting will only make everyone worry too much about you.
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