If you look at yourself and your highschool class, are you the only failure?

Question:

hi, i graduated 1997. and once in a while i see some of the people from my graduating class around town. Some of them are Professionals, some of them are managers..many of them look healthy and non injured. Then i look at me and it's the total opposite, i'm so mentally and physically injured, do'nt have any relationships with anyone ( no friends, no nothing) and struggling with all my other social life. i tell ya it feels bad to see others with success and you have nothing .

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Looks can be deceiving, and if they tell you that they are happy, 95% of the time, they are lying, they are in debt up to their ears. They are alcholics, they have or are sleeping around and doing drugs. So, looks are deceiving. I thought this too, but I am in a better place cuz I took the time to work on my mentall capacity and my inner strengths then they did.

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you're doing just fine. just be confident with yourself and life will fix itself in the end.

Sounds a lot like me. I've only been out of high school for a few years, so I don't really expect myself to be a successful bigshot yet. But I can see it coming. Maybe in a couple years or so.

If you always look at yourself as a victim, you will always be a victim.

It sure does suck. But when I start to think that way I realize that there is a very good chance that the person you see isn't always as happy and together as they appear or lead on. And then I also realize that there are a lot of people that are even bigger losers than I feel like and they all just moved to a crappier place. Basically when I feel like this I lie to myself.

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If you look at yourself and your highschool class, are you the only failure?

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