Am i a cheat?
Question:
What should i do?
Answers:
If you truly love your parents like you say you do, then you will set aside one day/night when all are free. Then when you have their attention, tell them everything that you have to tell them. They may be angry and/or hurt at first, but they are your parents and they love you. They will help you. Trust me, if you run from this problem, you will run from others until you realize that you are just spending your whole life running from yourself and your past.
Other Answers:
No, don't leave. Just fess up and face the music.
Best thing to do is break that habit!
It won't help to take the same habit with you wherever you go.
If it's that bad, your parents probably already knows, but still love you and hoping you will "grow out of it".
Break the habit by 1st not answering at all, if possible.
Don't make up lies, it won't make "you" feel good about yourself.
We all lie every now and then, but you've got to stop lying about insignificant things. Your parents may be upset on some of the things you've lied about, but the more you lie the bigger the lies become and the bigger the problems, so quit now while your ahead. You're only 17 why leave your home over a few lies?
Keep in mind, your parents know everything and anything about your personality, You may only be cheating yourself. They can tell when your lying.lol
you may be lying to uz about ur age. you may be lying about who's computer ur using. don't think that everything you lied to them about, mainly ur mother, you got away with. They still know they just want you to tell them ur self.
{so hand yo self ova}
I can't give advice to a liar, because they:
A: wouldn't heed my advice anyway
B: are probably lying about the entire situation anyway.
i'd just start being honest if i were you. running away from your problems doesn't solve anything, even if it seems like it would.
Just running away never solves anything. I know it may be hard but you need to tell your parents what you've been lyng about. It'll be better hearing you tell them the truth then someone else. Good Luck!!:)
yes you can .. all you have to do is tell them you wont to leave. in some states you can chose where you wont to live at the age of 14.
stop kicking yourself.. You lie.. find out why. Therapy.
Why leave?? Just remember, "honesty is the best policy"..
no
The truth hurts but who hurts more. You do. If you run, you'll always be running. You can't hide the truth from yourself. To thine ownself be true. It's best to grow up and face it. Tell your parents the truth. They probably already knew it best to hear it from you. Tell them how you feel and you'll feel better. They love you.
Take it from one who's been there. Then when you do leave, you'll be leaving for the right reasons. Good luck. :)
HERMES GRANG Are you lying now?
Maybe if you get some help you will find out your parents are part of the problem sometimes we expect to much out of our children and when they can not meet the expectations its easy-er to lie.
first of all, figure out what benifits your lying. What is your motivation? Ask for some counseling. Nip this in the bud or your life will be troubled.
I would recommend self talk. Every morning, every night before you go to sleep, and more if you remember it. Say to yourself
"I will no longer lie or manilupate the truth" I am an honorable person I no longer need to be decptive" I can do this, I know I can do this"
You might need to be on medication. Or maybe you need to meditate and get your body totally relaxed and only let positive energy in to your brain. Your will is stronger than you can ever imagine.
About leaving your home. The problem with that is that.no matter where you go.there you are. Think about it.
Hey you are a compulsive liar. I have a friend like that and she doesn't know why she does it either. She says she can't help herself either. It is some sort of mental illness or linked to one. Maybe try counseling. Leaving home isn't going to do you any good cuz you will still do it where ever you go to. Your parents sound like they might be supportive, maybe try to go to them and tell them you have a problem. Good luck to you.
you should confess to your folks then have your mom help you check to see if you have a impulsive disorder which would cause this kind of behavior as far as your parents finding out you are a liar honey they proably already know
your parents expect you not to tell them the "whole" truth. trust me they know more than you think
pray to god to relieve you of the obssesion to lie. if you don't, you will go to hell
I understand your situation,most of that teenage level are prone of whit lies to their parents to cover up their mistakes and wrongdoings,thats normal nowadays! Yes you cheat from them, if you have guts try to talk to them and confess all your lies and wrongdoings or write a letter to you parents,but dont leave your home,you will just ruin your life, i am pretty sure yopur parents loves you so much and they dont want you to ruin your own life!be open an be honest the next time!Try to fix you problem by telling your aunts ,uncle or guidance counselours!
Listen Hermy just sit down and talk to your parents,as one,we really don't expect that much, just for you to be happy. Sure you can leave but be honest with yourself where are you going to go?Its a cold hard world out there and you can't lie your way through life.At seventeen,my advice is to stay in school and stay with the parents you say you love.
really what you are doing is lying to our self. not your parents .once you start lying to your parents you will have to earn their trust , because now they can`t believe a worth you say . come clean and stop playing mind games with yourself
Running away doesn't solve anything. If you really love your parents then stay and work on improving your situation. You may need to see a counselor to discuss this and find out why you are lying. Usually, your school would have someone who they would recommend or who is at your school. Try that. Good luck.
When you are 18 you can, and you will find out quickly how nice it is at home! Your parents will understand if you come clean with them. They were teenagers too believe it or not. Try to hang in there until you are 18. When you turn 18, and your parents are no longer legally responsible for you, you will appreciate them more!
thats something your gonna have 2 figure out on your own only u kno how u want your parents to feel towards u besides every one lies look at your president hes the biggest f*@$!ing liar there is there gonna live u regardless your just a liar
Honesty leads to righteousness. Dishonesty leads to greater dishonesty. Criminal behavior begins with lying. Stop it. If you cannot be truthful with your parents, then you cannot be truthful with anyone else. If your parents do not expect anything from you it is because you have not offered them anything that they can believe in, or they just do not care about you. I do not know anything about your family situation, but it appears that you are not receiving much in the way of love if you want to leave home at 17. Running away from the situation will not solve anything---you carry your problems with you wherever you go. Sit down with your parents and confess your lying and ask them for forgiveness and LIE NO MORE. Jesus loves you. Trust him.
seek God for ur help, fess up to ur parents, they love u & u will be surprised what they will forgive. God forgives everything so turn to Him for guidance & strength to do what is right
confess dude they may punish you but that means they love you and they do exept nothing but the best from you if you tell them true they will be hurt but they will get over it so do what I would do never lie to them again and by all means earn their trust it will make a difference in yours and their lives knowing they can and will trust you but remember it wil take a long time to build that bridge again. I hope things turn out good for you and them.
You will be surprised at how good you will feel if you start telling the truth.. A big load will be taken off your shoulders, even with all the little things. Don't think your parents are stupid, they probably already know.. I always did and do with my kids, they can't handle the guilt so they come forward most of the time.. I can make them feel guilty without them knowing it.. It sounds like your parents are doing the same thing.. " The truth will set you free" try it.. Good Luck !
sweety, y do u want to leave home.? ok i got it..u dont wanna lie to them n but cudnt help do the else..let me suggest u smthng.dont lie to them bt just dont tell them d whole truth if the truth is gonna cause probs..reevaluate is the thing worth lying to ur parents?? y do u have to lie to them? wont they understand u? have u tried to make them consider ur viewpoint?
evn i feel like hell wen i lie to them..i just dont lie.but i dont say d truth.sry i dont hav much time..else i wud have put it in btr words.if wanna know just mail me..n i will tell u elaborately n btr than i hav here.
tc
dont leave home sweety
home is where the heaven is
no1 loves n cares 4 u more than your parents
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