i feel like i have nothing to offer anybody, im on state benifit, i battle mental health problems?


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i live in a ruff area im trying to get out of. i dont own alot of possessions, i got no carpet in my flat, i got a small tv, ive got alot on my plate wat can i possibly offer any girl? who would want me. my 2 lower teeth are missin due to an accident a while back. im unable to have crowns

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The most important thing you can offer a woman is your heart. If she wants anything else then she is not good enough for you. Everyone has difficult things that they are dealing with; just be patient and the right one for you wont care that you lost a couple of teeth and that you aren't financially stable right now. What you have on your side is time, and time with some effort from you changes everything. I would want someone who wanted me in the state that I am in now, because at least I will know that they are with me for me and not what I have to give them. Finally you are should work on your mental health to be in a better place emotionally to handle a relationship, because love isn't everything and a relationship is hard work, you have to make sure that you are ready emotionally for it.

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you can sell your computer and use the money for crowns and carpet
Don't worry guy, everything happens for a reason and you will get through it. Life is what YOU make of it, so do something good for yourself. If you work hard and are dedicated, things will come to you. So stay positive and you will work yourself out of your slump
GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT! hang in there
One of the best ways to meet people is through a support group or mental health advocacy group, where you can meet other consumers. They will be in the same boat as you. Talk to your doctor or case manager.

Another possibility is church.

Don't try to meet anyone on the internet just now. You seem to be too vulnerable.
first priority is get the crowns I dont think u sh sell yr comp to do this u will need it try a dental school. Then find a way to make a bit of money even a little will help. are you physically disabled? do u drive? I am hanicapped and I cant drive I would pay you to drive me and my scoote to the beach if u lived near me. you dont say how old u r? is scool an option? u can get grants in yr situation also Voc rehab will give u money if u want to go for a job. if that is not possible, I think u might find a woman in yr shoes to shar an apt in a better area and help each other
Okay, it sounds like you have a good plan; getting out of a bad neighborhood. Not having a lot of possessions is a good thing when moving and carpet is a breeding ground for critters and allergens. We would all be better off if we didn't watch TV. Too much TV a lead to depression. You don't need a girl right now, you need to focus on improving your self image. It sounds like you don't thing much of your self.
Get out of the house and try to find ways to help other people. It's funny how simply helping others can make you feel so great. Fresh air and sunshine are good too. Don't sit around waiting for someone to rescue you. It isn't gonna happen. If you get a good job, save up some money, find a great dentist, you can have the most beautiful smile around.


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