help me pleas!!!!!!!!!?

Question:

my mum had die in 2004 and my mate told me to foget about her and told me to get a life and im not sure what i got to do help plez

Answers:
1) take his advice, DO get a life (without that jerk!)

2) allow yourself to Grieve: that means, go thru the hurt, the pain, the sadness, allow yourself to Cry. let it go slowly.. not because u don't care about her anymore, but because now it's Your turn to live the best life u can, because life is precious, dear, important. u are just as important to someone as your mother was to you, which is why it's so important to live a Good life.

3) seek a counselor, or surround urself with Supportive friends. if they are not supportive, go to a group that u can talk to, that have gone thru similar things. u can find some at the YMCA or u can start one yourself at a shelter, etc. don't worry, life and death is a cycle; everyone has to experience one way or another, but u can CHOOSE to do what is Healthy, Happy and Positive.

4) take care of yourself, and those around you. filter out the negative people; allow your mate to change, but do'nt stay with him if he constantly makes u feel Negative or Sad or Depressed. he needs to change, in order to help you and stay with you.

good luck

Learn to speak properly, first of all. Get mental counseling after that.

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