Going crazy in a weird situation!?

Question: well im in a weird situation and i need your advice. im out of work and living at home. which is good and bad. the good is im looking for job without worrying about financial strain, but the bad is my confidence level is way, way down.

i feel like a loser . my sister lives here also and shes got a great job. when she comes home from work everyone at home is excited to see her and hear about her day. i feel kind of left out. no one really asks me how my day was or how im doing.

another thing is my mother got a computer a few weeks ago. ever since shes on it nonstop. she goes to bed really late,, gets up late 11:30-12:00, has breakfast than goes on the computer more. i told her the computer is taking her life over. she seemed upset that i called her out on it, but we both talked and realized that it's her life, not mine, and i agree. she can do what she wants. i feel like our relationship isnt as good as it used to be before our fight. should i do or say anything?

Answers:
tell your mom you're sorry. no reason to feel like a loser. just keep looking for that job that you are soon to get. talk to your sister more and help make her feel good and you'll feel good to. you might try some volunteer work at a local hospital or something to help your confidence level.

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Get over feeling like a loser and get out there and get a job that makes you feel good about yourself. If you are actively looking then your family will be happy to listen to your adventures in job hunting land.
I would tell your mom how you feel about your fight. Tell her how you feel about your sister getting more attention too, maybe it's all in your head or maybe they aren't aware of what they are doing?

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